5 things to teach your child to do when they get lost

Being a parent of a two-year-old who loves to run and explore places, I understand completely when a parent says that their worst fear is losing their child, especially now, as trips to malls and beaches, are becoming more of a weekend trip. All the places are so crowded, losing your child is what nightmares are made of. I have lost my toddler twice, and I swear, my heart stopped both the times. It takes a nanosecond to get all those images to flash in your mind — of your child falling on the escalator, someone taking away your child, she not being able to find you, your child terrified and crying. It is a chilling thought! I sincerely pray that such a thing never happens to a child. But what if it does, how do you equip you child to handle herself in such a situation? Well, here are a few tips that will help you train your child be safe and find her way in such a situation. Teach her parents’ names: This is the most primary thing to teach your child once they start talking. Teach her the parents’ names, grandparents’ names or anyone your child frequently goes out with. In case your child gets lost and is picked up by security officials, knowing your name can help them locate you. Teach her the address: 2-year-olds can definitely memorise their address. Teach your child your street name and the building name. Also, when stepping out, tell them where you are going and how to come back — whether you need to take a rickshaw or train or any other mode of transport. Repeat the address with her when she’s playing or when changing her clothes. Phone number: A lot of people get temporary tattoos to write their phone numbers and stick on their children’s hands. This helps if your child is lost. You can also help your child memorise your phone number. Tell them who to approach: A lot of mishaps can be avoided if your child knows who to approach. Instruct your child to approach either security people or police, if she can find one. The safest option will be to approach a mother or a family, especially one with children. They will be better equipped to calm your child and more willing to help. Not to go with anyone: A lost, crying child is seen as an easy target by predators. Teach your child to not go with anyone who offers help. Especially if the person is not in a uniform and is alone. Practice the safe password technique with your child, which will keep her safe lest someone approaches her and says that her parents send them to pick her. As a parent, our primary job is to keep our children safe, so when going to a place that will be crowded, you can opt for babywearing or keeping your child on a leash. And, god forbid, if such a situation arises when your […]

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